im no longer scared, ive been i dose lucid dreaming for a while, its helping me remember my dreams incredibly well, but.. i cant controll my dreams, how do i become aware in my dreams that i am actually dreaming? its been a few nights and i still havent been able to take controll of my dream

please help... im reading more and more stories and im star ting to become afriad to lucent dream...

i want to do this.. but i really dont want to fucking die.....

Ok.. i wanna do this so bad.. i want to start tonight do i listen to the lucid dreaming I-doser before i sleep? or do i fall asleep to it? 2, can i CONTROLL what happens in my dreams? since i will be aware im in a dream? like could i fly? shoot lazers out of my eyes for example? please help, i want ...